“The May-pole is up,
Now give me the cup;
I’ll drink to the garlands around it;
But first unto those
Whose hands did compose
The glory of flowers that crown’d it”
-Robert Herrick, The Maypole, 1660
As I mentioned in one of my last posts, even though we had a forecast of rain and snow the weather cooperated for our Mother-Daughter Tea and we were able to include some outdoor activities for the girls including a Maypole!
According to wikipedia, a maypole is a tall wooden pole erected as a part of various European folk festivals, particularly on May Day, or Pentecost (Whitsun) although in some countries it is instead erected at Midsummer.
My creative friend, who hosted our tea party this year, made a Maypole with flowers, ribbons, and an umbrella on a stand! How clever is that?! Even though the symbolism of the maypole has been continuously debated for centuries, and no set conclusion has ever been arrived at, Stasia explained to all the girls that she likes to think that all the individual ribbons represent the many different aspects and doctrines of our Catholic Faith, and when weaved together they create something complete and beautiful!
We had 13 girls participating in this year’s tea, so she attached 14 ribbons to the “maypole” since an even number of ribbons is needed. (A couple of the moms took turns with the last ribbon.)
Half of the girls encircle the pole in one direction, each holding a ribbon, and the other half face the other direction. To start, one line of girls is to go in first, the other to go out first. To weave the ribbons, a little song can help:
In and out, in and out,
Weave the ribbons tight;
‘Round the Maypole we will dance
To the left and to the right.
The girls alternate between going in towards the pole, and under the ribbon of person coming towards them. Then, they go out away from the pole, raising their ribbon over the person moving towards them.
The girls had so much fun with this activity and it was such a great addition to
Prayer of Mothers
Father in heaven, grant me the grace to appreciate the dignity which you have conferred on me. Let me realize that not even the Angels have been blessed with such a privilege—to share in your creative miracle and bring new Saints to heaven. Make me a good mother to all my children after the example of Mary, the Mother of your Son. Through the intercession of Jesus and Mary I ask your continued blessings on my family. Let us all be dedicated to your service on earth and attain the eternal happiness of your kingdom in heaven. Amen.
That is beautiful! Love the symbolism and the creativity.
This is wonderful! Every May my mother brings up her childhood memories of dancing around the Maypole and I never understood what was so wonderful about it. I guess I never realized that dancing around the pole with the ribbon yielded a pretty result.
Lovely activity for a blessed occasion. Deo gratias!
I am saddened, that I didn't, "come acoss," your Website much earlier. You brought back so many beautiful memories. I wonder if my May Day dress is still being worn …by some Little Girl. That was over 60 years ago! Our Church crowned our outside Ststue, last Sunday, May the 12th. Times sure have changed. I think I was the only adult with a white, "First Communion," style dress and White Shoes. Most of the congregation were in denims. Very little wind, this year. The crown stayed on! No Maypole, however, it was prayers and hymns. A beautiful outdoor event in front of our Church.
"Missy," Susan Pauline