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{this moment} – A Friday ritual. A single photo capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. If you’re inspired to do the same, visit Soulemama to leave a link to your ‘moment’ in the comments for all to find and see.

Small Successes :: November 11, 2010

“It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph. So on Thursday of each week, we do exactly that.”

~ 1 ~
I was able to help my mom clean part of her attic this past Saturday!  It was nice to spend some time with her, and to be able to help my parents out for a change, especially after all they did to help us with our remodel this past summer!  

~ 2 ~

There is something about helping to organize someone else’s home that really inspires me to come home and organize my own…   I came home and cleaned and redecorated (aka: moved all the furniture around for the 10th time) the nursery.   Hubby and I were both amazed at the difference, and little Rose has been enjoying her “new” bedroom so much!

~ 3 ~

I survived yesterday!  Doctors Appointments, Dentist Appointments (including two fillings for myself), new tires on the van, and a few other errands – ALL with six children in tow.   Does that qualify as a “small” success? I’m not quite sure!  😉  Oh!!  And we were even able to stop and take a few pictures of all the bears in town… More about that another time!


Happy Martinmas Day!! 
Stop by Faith and Family Live to read more of this week’s Small Successes.

Little Flowers Girls’ Club ~ Eutrapelia

A few weeks ago we finally had our first Little Flowers Girls’ Club meeting for this new year.

My girls were very excited and had really missed the meetings and seeing their Little Flower friends over the summer.   All day they couldn’t wait for the meeting to start!

I didn’t have time to prepare over the summer this year, in fact I hadn’t even had a chance to order the materials, but thankfully a friend loaned me her Wreath III Leader’s Guide and (I am sure with the help of St. Therese, and Shelly’s post!) everything fell into place in time for the meeting.

Here are some pictures from the afternoon:

~ Coloring Pages & Copywork ~

The girls had three options for coloring pages:

This year we are expanding on the virtue pages for our notebooks, and adding a bit of copywork using the Memory Verse for each month as well.  I am hoping this will help the girls get a jump start on memorizing the verse each month.   Here is the page I created for the younger girls (using Startwrite) for the virtue of Eutrapelia.

~ Meeting on the Virtue of Eutrapelia~

Eutrapelia = /yoo trap el EE ah/ Aristotle’s word for pleasantness in conversation: wit, repartee; liveliness; urbanity.

Aristotle and St. Thomas Aquinas describe this virtue as “pleasantness,” “good wit,” and “pleasantness.”  Rachel refers to it as “modest relaxation” in the Wreath III Leader’s Guide.

Following Shelly’s lead and suggestions (thank you, THANK YOU Shelly!) here is what was discussed:

  • First I explained the virtue, using the above definitions.  
  • I then introduced the flower.  The common dandelion.   I pointed out that to grown-ups this flower is a weed, but to children this weed is a flower.   Usually the first flower children bring to Mom.   And children love to blow the ‘puffballs’ – this brings great joy, aka EUTRAPELIA!!   Eutrapelia = Seeing weeds for what they are… FLOWERS!!  
  • At both Shelly and Rachel’s suggestion, I downloaded Mother, You Are Worried from Marie Bellet’s Lighten Up CD (I thought I had this CD, put apparently I just have all of her other cd’s) and played it for the girls.
  • We then discussed ways or situations where we could be pleasant.  
  • I told the girls about how St. Therese had hard times with some of the sisters in her order but she was always so gentle, kind and pleasant to those who were a thorn.  She always offered up these little sufferings.

We finished up by reading and discussing a story about St. Martha from More Once upon a Time Saints(This is an excellent series of books and very worth having in your home library!)

~ Notebook Pages ~

For the notebook pages, I used the memory verse for Eutrapelia, a prayer, an image of Martha and Mary, and dandelions. You can download my document here.

Here is a picture of the sample page I created:

~ Craft ~

“Candles are a good symbol of Eutrapelia — they banish the darkness, add to a celebration, and are generally associated with peacefulness and good cheer.” ~ Little Flowers Craft Companion  


Since candles are a good symbol for Eutrapelia, the girls each choose a sheet of beeswax and rolled their own candles!   I purchased my kit from Magic Cabin, but Amazon also has a similar kit available as well.

~ Apron ~

Since St. Martha is the patron of Housekeepers, the girls also made aprons!  

I mentioned wanting to make, or decorate, aprons to one of the very creative moms in my group, and she came up with the greatest idea!!  Not only did she help the girls make super cute dishtowel aprons, the girls will continue to add something to their apron at each meeting this year, incorporating each of the virtues for Wreath III!    Doesn’t that sound fun?!?  Here is what ELM came up with for each virtue:

WREATH III VIRTUE APRONS

MAKE APRON :: Eutrapelia and St. Martha, Patron of Housekeepers – Eutrapelia comes from the Greek for ‘wittiness’, referring to pleasantness in conversation. It is one of Aristotle’s virtues, the “golden mean” between boorishness and buffoonery

IRON ON FRIENDS’ NAMES TO APRON STRAP :: (Since “Friends hold us up!”) Friendliness – the quality of being friendly, ie. characteristic of or befitting a friend; “friendly advice”; “a friendly neighborhood”; “the only friendly person here”; “a friendly host and hostess”

IRON ON A RECIPE CARD WITH A FAVORITE RECIPE :: Initiative – enterprise: readiness to embark on bold new ventures, first step: the first of a series of actions

FOLD UP BOTTOM OF APRON TO FORM A POCKET :: Orderliness – the quality of appreciating method and system, a condition of regular or proper arrangement

IRON ON IMAGE “NO LICKING SPOON”:: Self-Control – the ability to control one’s emotions, behaviour and desires

SOMETHING TO CLEAN UP WITH – A DISH CLOTH ATTACHED WITH A BUTTON/VELCRO TO CLEAN AS YOU GO :: Responsibility – refers to a person attempting to meet the expectations others have of them, a form of trustworthiness; the trait of being answerable to someone for something or being responsible for one’s conduct, the state of being responsible, accountable, or answerable; A duty, obligation or liability for which someone is held accountable

IRON ON OR SEW ON A TIMER TO THE APRON :: Patience – good-natured tolerance of delay or incompetence, patience is the state of endurance under difficult circumstances, which can mean persevering in the face of delay or provocation without acting on annoyance/anger in a negative way

IRON ON PATCH OR TRANSFER IMAGE OF A CHEERY CUPCAKE OR COOKIE OR CHERRIES :: Cheerfulness – the quality of being cheerful and dispelling gloom, Noticeably happy and optimistic; Bright and pleasant

SOME KIND OF MATCHING OVEN MITT :: Fortitude – strength of mind that enables one to endure adversity with courage, determination, or sticking to what you know you should be doing, forbearance, endurance, and ability to confront fear and uncertainty, or intimidation, courage, bravery, fortitude, will, and intrepidity, is the ability to confront fear, pain, risk/danger,uncertainty, or intimidation. “Physical courage” is courage in the face of physical pain, hardship, death, or threat of death, while “moral courage” is the ability to act rightly in the face of popular opposition,shame, scandal, or discouragement.

~ Snack Time ~

Pumpkin Cupcakes topped with Cream Cheese Frosting
 and decorated as Common Dandelions
Served with “Dandelion Yellow” Punch

The girls enjoyed decorating their cupcakes with “dandelions” while wearing (or waiting to make) their new Little Flowers’ aprons!

~ Games ~ 

The girls love playing Memory with the Memory Cards.   I don’t have a set of the Wreath III Cards yet, so they set up two games, one with the Wreath I Cards and one using the Wreath II Cards.

Martha’s sister Mary, pray for us.   As you spent your time at Jesus’ feet, unlike your busy sister Martha, help us to love our Lord as Thee and practice eutrapelia.

St. Therese, the Little Flower, 
pray for us! 

St. Therese Lap Book

Last month my children enjoyed creating Lap Books in honor of St. Therese using the excellent St. Therese the Little Flower Faith Folder created by Holy Learning (previously Faith Folders for Catholics)!

In addition to the studying/completing the mini-books for our Lap Books we also enjoyed many books and activities in honor of St. Therese during the month of October.   You can find them (and other ideas!) listed in this post: Ideas for Celebrating the Feast of St. Therese.

Here are some pictures of Twinkle Toes’ completed Lap Book:

~ Front Cover ~
Twinkle Toes opted to use Scrapbook Paper & Stickers, Cut-out Letters and an Image of St. Therese for her front cover.  She also decided to create her lap book using a 2 folder layout.
~ Inside First Folder ~ 
Right Flap:
Center:
  • “The Martin Family” Open-Up Book Set
  • “The Road to Carmel” Pick-a-Tab Book
  • “The Martin Sisters” Square Fold-Out Book
  • “St. Therese Facts” Triple-Decker Book Set
Left Flap:
  • “The Little Flower Timeline”
~ Inside Second Folder ~ 

Left Flap:

  • “Our Lady of the Smile” Open the Doors Book
  • “The Infant Jesus of Prague” Open the Doors Book

Center:

  • Words of the Little Flower” Rose Shape Book
  • “Sacrifices for Jesus” Cone Pouch
  • “The Process of Sainthood” Multiple Flaps Book
  • “Discalced Carmelites” Pentagon Book
  • “Unlikely Patron of Missions” Rectangle Book
  • “Doctors of the Church” Square Fold-Up Book
  • “Sacrifices and the Little Way” Heart Shape Book
Right Flap:
  • “Building My Own Little Way” Graduated Pages Book
  • “St. Therese the Little Flower Novenas” Pocket and Prayer Cards Set
~ Back Cover ~ 
My children love all of the paper dolls at Paper Dali, and Twinkle Toes decided to create a pocket on the back cover of her lap book for her St. Therese paper doll!
She used a lovely coloring page for the outside of the Paper Doll pocket.

Please Pray…

I came home from town this evening to an email from my friend Shelly asking for prayers for Liz.
“This sweet family is awaiting the inevitable. Liz has made it to 41 weeks carrying her 7th child. She is so thankful for the extra time with her son, Jedidiah Joseph. You see, Jedi has Trisomy 13…”
We have recently been praying for Liz’s brother, Father Kevin Peek, and will most definitely be adding Liz and her family to our prayers as well. . .  Will you please join me?
I just visited Liz’s blog and saw the beautiful picture of her with her precious little one, who was indeed born today!! 
“Please drop by Liz’s blog
Leave her some words of comfort and peace.
Let her know you’re praying.”

{this moment}

{this moment} – A Friday ritual. A single photo – no words – capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. If you’re inspired to do the same, visit Soulemama to leave a link to your ‘moment’ in the comments for all to find and see.

A Few More Pictures…

… from this year’s All Saints’ Party!

Group Photo of all the little ones dressed as Saints
This year instead of just a few moms bringing all the games, each family was asked to bring one.   It worked out great and the children all loved all the new (and old!) games this year! 
~ Saint Search ~
This game is from Illuminated Ink.  I loved howmy friend Jacinta had prizes that tied in to the various saints:  St Francis = Animal Crackers, St. Lucy = Chocolate Eyeballs, St. Apollonia (patron of dentists) = Gummy Teeth,  St. Peter = Goldfish, etc…
~ St. Nicholas’ Coin Toss ~
This new game idea came from Charlotte and was implemented by Erica.  It was so much fun, and the children loved the addition of Chocolate Coins for prizes!
~ Feed My Sheep ~ 
~ St. Peter’s Fishing ~
~ Toss the Roses into St. Juan Diego’s Tilma ~
“St. Therese” had particularly good aim with the roses! 😉 
~ Saint Anthony’s Lost Keys ~
Don’t you just love that picture of Snuggles with his chin sitting on the table!  🙂





My kids loved the Lost Key game that Amy’s family brought to the party!

~ Mary Magdalene’s Scented Oil Match ~
This was another idea from Charlotte, though Trina (a mom of 5 boys and 2 girls) decided to change the name from “perfume” to “oil” in case there were any boys out there that might not want to play a game even remotely connected to “perfumes!” lol! 
~ 7 Deadly Sins Golf~ 

Practice Swing! 😉 
~ Wall of Saints ~




This year we had a wall of saints!  Each child brought a colored picture and/or story about their saint to hang on the wall.  I only snapped a picture of a few, but it was so neat! 

~ The Graveyard ~ 

In addition to coordinating and decorating for the party this year, Marci also set up the “graveyard.” At the base of the crosses, the tombstones are labeled: Departed Family, Forgotten Dead, Departed Clergy, and Departed Friends. There were markers available so that everyone was able to write their departed loved ones names down.
~ Heavenly Back Drop ~
Marci and I attempted to paint a “Heavenly” backdrop this year, at the last minute, the day before our party.   I told her it turned out looking more like an overcast day in purgatory! lol!  (It doesn’t look quite as bad in the pictures…)  Anyhow, perhaps next year we can find someone that can really paint to make one for us!
Just like every year, my children had a wonderful time!

State-by-State Scrapbook :: New Hampshire

“N is for Newspaper
The oldest newspaper in all the land:
the New Hampshire Gazette
is published here yet.
Pick it up free on a local newsstand!”

The boys had a lot of fun studying the state of New Hampshire!  
In addition to reading the book, we also did a few additional activities from the publisher, and then decided to make a fun treat as well.  I posted the recipe for these Edible Eagles over at Catholic Cuisine! 
Now we are moving on to study Virginia!  If only we could actually visit… 

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Prayer of Mothers

Father in heaven, grant me the grace to appreciate the dignity which you have conferred on me. Let me realize that not even the Angels have been blessed with such a privilege—to share in your creative miracle and bring new Saints to heaven. Make me a good mother to all my children after the example of Mary, the Mother of your Son. Through the intercession of Jesus and Mary I ask your continued blessings on my family. Let us all be dedicated to your service on earth and attain the eternal happiness of your kingdom in heaven. Amen.


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Sean & Jessica, Captain-25, Ranger-23, Twinkle Toes-22, Chiquita-20, Snuggles-18, Rose-15, Bud-13, Grace-8 and Joy-6 (blog nicknames)

A Little About Me

Hi! I'm Jessica, a Roman Catholic wife and home educating mother to our nine children. I was home educated myself, along with my eleven younger siblings. I have a special devotion to St. Therese, through whom I have been given much help and many blessings--the beautiful "Shower of Roses" that she has sent my way! Here I will record a few of the blessings I treasure. Please remember that what you see here is just a little glimpse at our lives, so please say a prayer for us, as we continue to strive for holiness.

My Other Blog: Catholic Cuisine

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