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by Jessica | Dec 29, 2022

Speaking of Peace…

… I wanted to share this prayer by Mother Teresa with you all.

“May today be peace within. May you trust your highest power that you are exactly where you are meant to be… May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith. May you use those gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you… May you be content knowing you are a child of God… Let this presence settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise, and love. It is there for each and every one of you.”

Have a wonderful weekend!

Mittenstrings: Chapter 3

” In stillness, we find our peace. Knowing peace at home, we bring peace into the world. “

The third chapter of Mitten Strings For God is titled Peace. What a perfect topic for this peaceful morning! It is currently snowing outside–please note, we never have snow in March!–the boys have gone to Mass & work with daddy, the girls are sitting here coloring nicely while Snuggles plays with a few toys. Dinner is in the crock pot, and playing softly in the background is Triumph of the Cross, Music for Easter, a CD from the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception. I wish all mornings were as peaceful as this! 🙂

Peace is something I struggle constantly to find and create in our home. Like the author of Mitten Strings said, “I am forever seeking a balance in our family life between activity and stillness, sound and silence, society and solitude. For now, I still have a measure of control over the tenor of my children’s days, but as the actual amount of time we spend alone together inevitably shrinks, maintaining this balance becomes more important–and more challenging. “

I use to thrive on being overly busy, constantly on the run, and having “something to do“… Lately, it seems, through our current circumstances (gas prices, the distance to town, and five young home educated children), that God is telling me to slow down, cut back on our activities outside the home, and enjoy the stillness and this Ordinary Time!

As I was reflecting upon the combination of peace and home schooling, I remembered a line I highlighted in an article by Father Hardon, “Catholic home schooling is the planned and organized teaching and training of children at home, for their peaceful and effective life in this world, and for their eternal salvation in the world to come.“

Peace and Home schooling… Can those two words work together???

I am so blessed to be able to home school my children. However, there has been many times, especially the past four months, in which I have considered putting my children into school. I don’t think that I have mentioned it here, but I have been discussing it with hubby and friends.

Growing up I was home-schooled from grade 5 on. Being the social girl that I am, I resented home-schooling, and would beg and beg my parents to let me go back to school. I was determined that when I was a parent, “I would NEVER home school my kids.” However, looking back, I am so grateful to my parents for persevering, and making the sacrifice to home educate us children.

Moving on, to when I was newly married, a friend of my mothers (who was considering home schooling her children) asked me, “What would be your reason for NOT home schooling?” I thought about it for 2 seconds and answered, “Laziness.”

It would be easy to send my children to school… and hard to teach them at home.

Now, don’t get me wrong… I love home schooling! I love being able to pick out all the books we use! I love knowing that my children are receiving an authentically Catholic education! I love being able to have the time to do crafts with my children and read lots and lots of books to them! I love not having to worry about whether someone is hurting them or bullying them. And most of all, I get to have the reassurance that I am fulfilling God’s will for my children’s lives and upbringing.

What I don’t love, is not knowing what to do when one of my children is struggling with learning, having a messy unorganized home, and having very little quite time for myself.

Now, if I am honest with myself, I don’t think I would actually put my children into school. A friend of mine recently said, “You’ll home school at least another year, since you are still planning on going to that conference.” She is right. This was just my cry for help. And help is coming! In addition to setting out on a major decluttering of our home, since I am finding that an organized home is key to my sanity, I had Captain tested. It turns out that he has a couple learning challenges. They appear to be mild, but it explains my frustration (as well as his!) with teaching him to read. With therapy, they can easily be corrected, and the tutor begins on Monday. I am so relieved to find out that I am not a total failure at home schooling!

Anyhow, I have totally digressed on this post! I am sorry… but these are the thoughts that this chapter brought about! 🙂

Well, I have spent too much time online this morning. Time for me to get back to enjoying this rare peaceful morning! I think I am going to go and cuddle on the couch with my girls and read a few more books about Butterflies!

So, YES, it seems that I can have Peace and still Home School!

Before I go, don’t miss Dawn’s post about this chapter. Like usual, she has given a wonderful list of questions to think about! Thank you Dawn! I am going to print it out to re-read and think about while the kids are napping this afternoon!

“Let us go forward in peace, our eyes upon heaven, the only one goal of our labors.” ~ St. Thérèse

SNOW!!!

in MARCH???

This is such a change from the other day!


A Butterfly Lap Book

Twinkle Toes has been talking about Butterflies since our Caterpillar/Cocoon/Butterfly Holy Week Project.

I decided to take her interest a step further and have her make a lap book on Butterflies! She was very excited!

We began by reading a couple of our books:

The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle
The Butterfly by Anna Milbourne

Today we picked up the following additional books about butterfly’s from the library–OH! It is SO NICE to have our library’s open again!– to read during the next couple weeks:

The Butterfly by Patricia Polacco
Butterfly House

She began her lap book by coloring a picture for the cover… Like usual, Chiquita wanted to color one too!

Next she practiced writing the letters C for Caterpillar, and B for Butterfly, and then made alphabet mini books for those 2 letters.

After that she recited her numbers and then worked on practicing number placement for numbers 1-9 in addition to reviewing her colors using a Caterpillar Circles and Colors Activity. She then colored a beautiful Letter B for Butterfly. These were both added to the lap book next to the corresponding mini-books.

Next we discussed, and put together a mini-book, on the life cycle of the butterfly that I found over at Enchanted Learning. Note: This printout requires membership. If you don’t happen to have a member ship at Enchanted Learning, there are still lots of free printables available from them. I just love this site! I reduced the book to 70% before printing.

I also printed out the Painted Lady Butterfly Life Cycle Sequencing Cards which she colored and put in order. We then made an envelope for them inside the lap book.

For copy work, she copied–currently I create a word document, with the letters in light gray, for her to trace–the following poem from one of our favorite books, Favorite Poems Old and New:

Caterpillar
by Christina Rossetti

Brown and furry
Caterpillar in a hurry,
Take your walk
To the shady leaf, or stalk,
Or what not,
Which may be the chosen spot.
No toad spy you,
Hovering bird of prey pass by you;
Spin and die,
To live again a butterfly.


We had some extra room on one side, so we added a Caterpillar that she colored, and then she learned about symmetry through the use of finger paint!

Painted Symmetrical Butterfly

Fold a piece of construction paper in half and cut out a butterfly shape. Open it up and allow the student to dab different colors of paint on one side. Fold the butterfly back up and smooth it down with the palm of the hand. Open it up and you have a symmetrical butterfly.

For the Back of the lap book, and to tie in our Easter butterfly, I printed out a Butterfly Dot-to-dot followed by, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, and the new has come!” 2 Corinthians 5:17

I made a list of possible activities for the girls to do:

We have only done a few of these so far… I hope to do a few more of them the rest of the week.

Anyhow, here are a few pictures of her completed lap book:





Before I go, has anyone ever had a Butterfly Garden or made your own? It sounds so neat! I’d also love to hear any suggestions you have on any other Butterfly themed picture books!

This is seriously getting ridiculous…


Any suggestions?

In case you were wondering…

…just what my children were doing last week while I crazily spring cleaned our home for Easter, they did get a little school work done, as well as watch some educational and religious videos since cartoon/movies were off limits for Lent.

The rest of the time, they spent many hours outside staying out of my way and burning off energy enjoying the beginning of Spring!

At one point, while the girls were napping, I thought it was just way too quite out there, so I looked out to see what they were up to. This is what I found:

When hubby got home that night, they asked him, “Daddy, can you get out your chainsaw and cut some more branches for us… We can’t find any more!”

And here I was wondering just HOW I picked up Poison Oak!

Kindness and Flowers

Kathy over at The Daily Grotto has kindly sent this award my way. Don’t you just love getting flowers?!?! Thank you Kathy!

One of the greatest things about blogging is making new friends!

This past year I have “met” some wonderful new “blog friends.” You have truly been a blessing in my life. I treasure these new friendships, and thank you all for the friendship, support, inspiration and ideas that you have shared with me!

I want to give this award right back to you Kathy, and also pass it on to:

Ruth at Just Another Day in Paradise
Elizabeth at Real Learning
Meredith at Sweetness and Light
Matilda at Waltzing Matilda
Cheryl at My Thoughtful Spot
Christine at Memories of a Catholic Wife and Mother
Christie at Tis’But a Season
Christy at The Happy Hunting Ground (currently a private blog)
Michele at Decrease to Increase
Jamie at Lord, Make me a Saint

As well as a couple of my real life friends that I have gotten to know so much better through blogging: Regina & Amy. You two are wonderful!

I could go on and on, but I had better stop there.

Anyhow, thank you TO ALL OF YOU that stop by and visit, often leaving comments that add an extra bit of joy to my day! Isn’t blogging great?!?

WoW…

…or rather, Whew!!

I was really dreading this weeks Weight on Wednesday check in. However, I am relived to say, “I have nothing to report!”

Yep… Even after all that Easter candy, desserts and Easter Salad, a couple heavenly mochas, all the chocolate my dear children keep sharing with me, Hubby’s birthday cake, that delicious HUGE burger with sweet potato fries I had when Hubby & I went out to dinner Monday night, and the yummy Crunchwrap I had for dinner last night, I didn’t gain anything!!!

The bad thing is I didn’t lose anything either, and my measurements are exactly the same, buy hey, I’ll take it!

I had just better straighten up my food choices this week! To see every one else’s Week 4 results click here.

Happy Easter Wednesday!

Vote Pro-Life

I wanted to share this video containing a few highlights from a protest that took place last Saturday:

My hubby has a thought provoking post on Barack Obama’s Positions.

In addition, did you know that:

Barack Obama is the most pro-abortion presidential candidate ever. He is so pro-abortion he refused as an Illinois state senator to support legislation to protect babies who survived late-term abortions because he did not want to concede — as he explained in a cold-blooded speech on the Illinois Senate floor — that these babies, fully outside their mothers’ wombs, with their hearts beating and lungs heaving, were in fact “persons.”

Read the rest here.

How appropriate!

Did you know that tomorrow is National Make Up Your Own Holiday Day? I didn’t, but thanks to Dawn–she is always on top of this kind of thing–I do now!

Dawn has a couple of great ideas of things to do with the kids that I think we will just have to try!! Thank you Dawn!

She even recommended a little quiz–and you all know how I can’t pass up one of those! So…


You Are Easter


You are an optimistic, hopeful, and genuinely sweet person.

Sensitive and affectionate, you are easily touched.

You love nature, animals, and anything cute or cuddly.

For you, every day is a new chance – no matter what happened yesterday.

What makes you celebrate: Almost anything. You love most holidays and celebrations.

At holiday get togethers, you do best as: The peacemaker. You can prevent any squabbles that might break out.

On a holiday, you’re the one most likely to: Remember to include everyone

So, which holiday are you, and what holiday would you create if you could?? I’d love to know!

Well… I am off to say the Divine Mercy Chaplet, tuck the little ones into bed, and then watch a movie with hubby. Now that lent is over, it is so nice to watch movies again–hubby & I went out to dinner and a movie (for his birthday) last night too!!! 🙂 Anyhow, have a wonderful night!


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Prayer of Mothers

Father in heaven, grant me the grace to appreciate the dignity which you have conferred on me. Let me realize that not even the Angels have been blessed with such a privilege—to share in your creative miracle and bring new Saints to heaven. Make me a good mother to all my children after the example of Mary, the Mother of your Son. Through the intercession of Jesus and Mary I ask your continued blessings on my family. Let us all be dedicated to your service on earth and attain the eternal happiness of your kingdom in heaven. Amen.


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Sean & Jessica, and our kids—known here at Shower of Roses by their childhood blog nicknames: Captain, Ranger, Twinkle Toes, Chiquita, Snuggles/Scout, Rose, Bud, Grace & Joy. (Ages 26–7)

A Little About Me

Hi! I'm Jessica, a Roman Catholic wife and home educating mother to our nine children. I was home educated myself, along with my eleven younger siblings. I have a special devotion to St. Therese, through whom I have been given much help and many blessings--the beautiful "Shower of Roses" that she has sent my way! Here I will record a few of the blessings I treasure. Please remember that what you see here is just a little glimpse at our lives, so please say a prayer for us, as we continue to strive for holiness.

My Other Blog: Catholic Cuisine

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