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by Jessica | Dec 29, 2022

The Maypole and our Beautiful Catholic Faith

“The May-pole is up,
Now give me the cup;
I’ll drink to the garlands around it;
But first unto those
Whose hands did compose
The glory of flowers that crown’d it”
-Robert Herrick, The Maypole, 1660

As I mentioned in one of my last posts, even though we had a forecast of rain and snow the weather cooperated for our Mother-Daughter Tea and we were able to include some outdoor activities for the girls including a Maypole!

According to wikipedia, a maypole is a tall wooden pole erected as a part of various European folk festivals, particularly on May Day, or Pentecost (Whitsun) although in some countries it is instead erected at Midsummer.

My creative friend, who hosted our tea party this year, made a Maypole with flowers, ribbons, and an umbrella on a stand!  How clever is that?! Even though the symbolism of the maypole has been continuously debated for centuries, and no set conclusion has ever been arrived at, Stasia explained to all the girls that she likes to think that all the individual ribbons represent the many different aspects and doctrines of our Catholic Faith, and when weaved together they create something complete and beautiful!  
We had 13 girls participating in this year’s tea, so she attached 14 ribbons to the “maypole” since an even number of ribbons is needed.  (A couple of the moms took turns with the last ribbon.)  

Half of the girls encircle the pole in one direction, each holding a ribbon, and the other half face the other direction.  To start, one line of girls is to go in first, the other to go out first.  To weave the ribbons, a little song can help:

In and out, in and out,
Weave the ribbons tight;
‘Round the Maypole we will dance
To the left and to the right.

The girls alternate between going in towards the pole, and under the ribbon of person coming towards them. Then, they go out away from the pole, raising their ribbon over the person moving towards them.

The girls had so much fun with this activity and it was such a great addition to

The Game of Graces

One of the games I choose for the girls to play during this year’s Mother-Daughter Tea Party was the game of Graces, as suggested by Eliana.  It was so much fun!

According to Victorian World, Graces is a game that dates back to the 1830s. It was originally intended as an indoor parlour game, but could be played outdoors as well, and due to its popularity, it often was. It was a two-player game which used two wooden throwing rings, (usually decorated with ribbons), and four catching wands. Each player held two catching wands, one in each hand. The first player would place the rings over the wands which he/she held, then toss the rings, one at a time, to the other player. The winner was the player who had caught the most tossed rings within a set amount of time. It was generally considered a “girl’s game” as it was meant to encourage gracefulness–hence, the name, “Graces.”

We also read the following from the section on Colonial Party Games in our out of print copy of The American Girls Party Book:   Each player has 2 sticks. (Our girls used one “stick” each so that more girls could play at the same time.)  Dowels from craft or hardware stores work well. (I used knitting needles.) The players use the sticks to toss a small hoop, such as an embroidery hoop, back and forth. For fluttery fun, wrap ribbons around the hoop and let the ends hang down as streamers. Keep wrapping ribbons until the entire hoop is covered. 


Beginning with Bocce Ball {and a few Group Photos!}

Despite a forecast of rain and snow the weather cooperated beautifully, even if it was cold, for our Mother-Daughter Tea Party and we were able to enjoy a few outdoor activities!  We started with a game of Bocce Ball in the backyard overlooking a beautiful golf course, as we waited for all of our guests to arrive.

“Bocce ball is a game of Italian origin that two to four people can play in the yard, on the beach or on a strip of gravel. Game balls come in two sizes and the goal, in essence, is to roll the large bocce balls closer to the small “target” ball, called the pallino, than your opponents manage to do. In each round, the player who gets closest to the pallino earns a point. It may seem easy, but the game requires precision and patience. Eye-hand coordination is your best asset for winning this game.” – Ehow

In the meantime the moms stood around and chatted and the girls peeked through the windows at all the beautiful decorations… They were very excited for our tea to begin.  
Once everyone had arrived, and before letting all the girls into the house for tea, we took a few quick group photos! 
The Little Flowers
(with a few new friends this year from Irish Dancing!)
Mothers and Daughters
Our whole group with our five handsome servers! 

Here is the link to additional ideas for Little Flowers Girls’ Club Tea Party Games, 
and you can find links to all my past Little Flowers Posts here.  

Little Flowers “Maypole” Tea Party Favors and Prizes

We had such a lovely time at our our annual Mother-Daughter Tea Party yesterday afternoon!  I have so many pictures to share that I hardly know where to begin…  It is going to be a very busy week, so it may take me a little time to get to it all, but I think I will start with the party favors and then move on to the games before I finish with the pictures from the actual tea.

As always, I created little party favors for the girls.  Back in 2009, for our first tea,  I gave the girls little St. Therese plaques.  The next year I hand-painted little St. Therese dolls for each of the girls.  For our 3rd tea I filled white paper “Tea bags” with treats along with Tea Pot Lollipops.  And last year I repeated the “Tea Bags” once again along with Pretzel Rods dipped in white chocolate and pink sprinkles.

This year I decided to do create favors similar to the ones I made for the Baby Shower of Roses.   I headed to the dollar store to look for favor boxes and after discovering some “marshmallow poles” decided to try and incorporate a “Maypole” theme as well, since we were hoping to have a Maypole activity this year (more on that later).

Originally I planned to make my own chocolates again, but my husband said he’d rather pay for chocolates than wash my candy molds, which I have a habit of leaving in the sink! it was easier to just pick up some at the store.  😉

Favor Supplies:
Pink Favor Boxes with Ribbon (Dollar Store/Baby Shower Section)
Marshmallow Poles (Dollar Store/Candy Section) 
Dove Raspberry Chocolates (Pink)
Hershey Nuggets (Silver)
Bubbles (Wedding Supplies)
The Little Flower Holy Card (free download)

They were very easy to assemble and turned out very cute!  
I also filled a basket with Bingo prizes…
… and picked up a little rose plant and box of cookies as a very small* thank you for our hostess. 
*I feel like I can’t thank her enough for sharing her home with us and saving me so much work!
Once again I am fighting a cold/cough and I need to get back to my ever growing “to-do” list, but I’ll be back with more pictures from our tea party soon!

7 Quick Takes :: A Birthday Party and Pony Rides!

— 1 —

Last Saturday my niece turned three years old!  I still haven’t gotten around to posting the pictures I took at our fun trip to the pumpkin patch last fall during “C” week, but my sweet little niece fell in love with riding the ponies so my brother surprised her, and all the kiddos, with pony rides on her birthday!  She loved the pony rides just as much as she did last year.  

— 2 —

Bud, however, was not at all sure what to think of the pony… 
… he wasn’t sure what to think of the lady leading the pony either.  I don’t think he trusted either one.
Note:  Since a friend asked on facebook, I thought I’d share the link to my new favorite denim skirt, which I’m wearing in the above picture.  I purchased it during a 30% off sale with an extra 20% off coupon, so it was only $27.  It is so comfortable!   *Update:  All sizes were available last night when I posted the link, but now it looks like they only have one size left. 

— 3 —

The girls and Snuggles all loved taking turns riding…

And the big boys?  Well, they had no intention of riding the poor little pony until Aunt Meagan told them that they could either ride the pony, or clean the driveway after the party!  They choose to ride the pony.  Captain later told me, while laughing, that when he got on the lady said, “I don’t need to buckle you, if you don’t want me to.”

— 4 —
Party Cowboy hats!  The kids loved getting to wear their daddy’s old hats from his college days. 
— 5 —

We had a hard time deciding on a gift for my niece, but after the suggestion from a friend we decided on a Lady Bug Nightlight.  Our children have these in their bedrooms and were excited to give one to their cousin too! 
— 6 —

  It rained on and off all afternoon, but every time it stopped the kids headed back outside to play.

— 7 —

The party ended with a few very loud fireworks and sparklers, much to the delight of the birthday girl…
… but once again Bud was very concerned! 

He was very thankful to his big brother for keeping him safe during all that noise! 🙂

 For additional Quick Takes this week, visit Camp Patton.

{pretty, happy, funny, real} :: The Sound of Music

~ Capturing the context of contentment in everyday life. ~

{pretty}

 Last night we met my beautiful mother for dinner at Chipotle before heading to the theatre to see The Sound of Music!   No one ever believes that my mom is the mother of twelve (plus two in heaven).  I hope I look that great after I have five more children! 😉 

{happy}
These growing boys of mine were very happy to get their very own burrito bowls (we usually share when we eat out) and they ate every last bite.  Yum!!! 
Oh!! And Twinkle Toes has been very happy since finding out last week that her braces (phase one) are ready to come off at her next appointment (at the end of May)!   It seems like she just got them on… They were put on during the first week of school and will come off at the end of our school year.   This year has gone by quickly, as usual.  
{funny}
Our oldest four children were so incredibly excited to attend a play for the very first time – and what could be better for them to see than The Sound of Music!   It is definitely a favorite in our family. 
Anyways, after taking this picture my mom was showing us some of the other photos on her phone, including some panoramic pictures.  After saying that “I wish my phone camera could take pictures like that” my mom (who didn’t even have an email address or know how to turn a computer on a couple years ago) showed me how to change the setting on my phone to take them…  She then turned to the kids and said, “Woohoo!!! I just showed YOUR MOM how to do something!  I need to write that in my journal… I need to FACEBOOK THAT!”  They thought it was hilarious… Hmph! 😉 
{real}

After the play, which ended just past 11pm, everyone was still wide awake and enjoyed meeting the cast.  They loved telling “Maria” that they too are part of a family with seven children!   

Of course the tickets to attend the musical were really expensive, and completely out of our budget, but I was able to get the approval from our charter school to purchase the children’s tickets with some of our remaining allotment for their fourth quarter “Music” requirements! Such a blessing!! 

Visit Like Mother, Like Daughter for more pictures of contentment.

An Easter Coloring Contest

Illuminated Ink is hosting an Easter Coloring Contest!  I just downloaded and printed copies of the beautiful coloring page for my children.   They are rounding up their favorite art supplies and can’t wait to begin! Here’s the link in case any of you would like to join the fun!

Little Flowers Girls’ Club Tea Party Games

This coming weekend we will be having our annual Little Flowers Girls’ Club Mother-Daughter Tea Party! Having completed all four wreaths last year, I did take this year off from coordinating and hosting Little Flowers for my girls, but we’ve decided that we still wanted to have the tea party.  A dear friend of mine, whose daughters were/are in the older Little Flowers group, has generously offered to host our tea this year at her home, using all the decorations from her daughter’s groups annual tea party the day before!!!  This simplifies things incredibly for me!   I’ve already sent the invitations and assigned the food to the various girls (and Mothers) who will be attending and my girls will be wearing their Easter dresses, hats and gloves.  So that just leaves me with the games, prizes, and favors to plan.

I’ve spent some time this afternoon looking though all the games we have played in the past and thought I’d round them all up into one post.  At our tea parties we always take a short break to play a game or two in between each course, while the servers refill the trays for the next course.   This year we will be having a four-course tea so I need to decide on 3-4 games.   If the weather is nice we might be having a maypole this year, which would take care of one of the games.   Here’s what we’ve playing in the past:

in addition to Setting the Table for Tea (played blindfolded)

(You can also find a Wreath II Word Search Here)

Would you all help me decide?   This year we will have a group of about 13 girls ranging in age from 6-13, along with 6 mothers.  It would be great to include a new game or two, so if you have any suggestions or ideas for me I’d love for you to leave them in the comment box!

A Brand New Release from the Benedictines of Mary

Remember the beautiful Advent at Ephesus CD I recommended during Advent?  Well, the dear sisters at the Benedictines of Mary, Queen of the Apostles have created another inspiring collection of music featuring 17 English and Latin pieces sung a cappella on the feasts of the holy Saints and angels throughout the year:

Monica from De Montfort Music sent me an email this afternoon asking if I could help promote this new CD.  She described it as “breathtaking” and “so gorgeous that I am certain I have just heard the sounds of Heaven!”  I’m more than happy to share it with you all, and already pre-ordered a copy to give to my mother, who happens to be a Benedictine Oblate, for Mother’s Day on May 13th!  *I hope you’re not reading this mom! 🙂

The funds from the sale of this CD will assist the sisters in alleviating their remaining debt, helping them get closer to building their much needed permanent monastery.  Plus. if the pre-order number is high, this music will be more widely available upon it’s release showing that there is a commercial need/demand for truth and beauty in art.


*Feed readers may need to click through to watch the video.
Angels and Saints at Ephesus, will be released next month on May 7th, but we can help support the sisters by pre-ordering a copy today!   

On Divine Mercy Sunday

Let our judgment of souls cease, for God’s mercy upon them is extraordinary. ~ St. Faustina

This afternoon, following the completion of our Divine Mercy Novena, the children had so much fun decorating “Divine Mercy Cookies.”  They were so simple, and yet very much enjoyed.   
I hope you all have had a very blessed Divine Mercy Sunday! 

How happy I am to see myself imperfect and be in need of God’s mercy. 
~ St. Therese of Lisieux

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Hi! I'm Jessica, a Roman Catholic wife and home educating mother to our nine children. I was home educated myself, along with my eleven younger siblings. I have a special devotion to St. Therese, through whom I have been given much help and many blessings--the beautiful "Shower of Roses" that she has sent my way! Here I will record a few of the blessings I treasure. Please remember that what you see here is just a little glimpse at our lives, so please say a prayer for us, as we continue to strive for holiness.

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