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On the Feast of St. Andrew
The beginning of Advent is always determined by St. Andrew’s Day. The Sunday nearest to his feast is always the First Sunday in Advent. If November 30th falls on a Monday through Wednesday, Advent begins the Sunday preceding his feast day, if it falls on Thursday through Saturday Advent begins the Sunday following.
This feast is a name-day (patron saint’s feast day) for one of our boys! This year he requested fish, broccoli and rice for dinner, with our St. Andrew Cupcakes, decorated with an X-shaped Cross and Fish, for dessert. 🧁🎣
The Advent Season In Our Catholic Home
The Advent Season in our Catholic Home
“Advent is concerned with that very connection between memory and hope which is so necessary to man. Advent’s intention is to awaken the most profound and basic emotional memory within us, namely, the memory of the God who became a child. This is a healing memory; it brings hope. The purpose of the Church’s year is continually to rehearse her great history of memories, to awaken the heart’s memory so that it can discern the star of hope.… It is the beautiful task of Advent to awaken in all of us memories of goodness and thus to open doors of hope.” – Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI
Earlier this month the women in my parish’s homeschool group somehow talked me into (or rather cornered me into!) giving a presentation at the November meeting, something I’ve only agreed to once before (The 2015 Rocky Mountain Home Educators Conference), checked it off the bucket list, and said never again! I really love visiting with other moms, but public speaking makes me so incredibly nervous, not to mention life is just so full already… I didn’t have much time to prepare, basically just the day prior, so I ended up starting this month’s presentation with part of my previous talk – “A Little Way of Celebrating the Feasts and Seasons of the Liturgical Year in the Home” – and then followed it up with specific ideas for Advent! I survived the talk, despite my nerves, and hopefully I was able to pass along a little inspiration to some of the families in our parish.
Nearly everything I shared can be found here in the archives, but I thought I’d take some time today to compile my notes and slides into one post for easy reference.
In the past I have joked with a friend that sometimes I will look through my own blog archives and think “How does she do it?!” 😉 Please remember that you see here is a compilation of 20 years of celebrating the saints and seasons, those celebrations have slowly grown over the years. Don’t let yourself be overwhelmed by all the ideas out there on the internet including here at Shower of Roses!
Introduction to Advent & The New Church Year
In Family Advent Customs published back in 1954, author Helen McLoughlin writes:
“Advent is the beginning of the new liturgical year. It is a season of spiritual preparation, marked by eager longing for the coming of the Saviour through grace at Christmas, and for His second and final coming. It is also an ideal time to establish in our homes liturgical customs which will restore our children to Christ… Secularism has invaded our households. The Bishops of the United States (back in 1954) have warned us that “the Christian must make his home holy–the Christian must realize the Christian ideal.” ….. Children, who love the beauty and simplicity of family religious practices, make the traditions easy to establish. As a rule it is best to begin with one or two customs and add others in years to come.”
Over the years our family has adopted and established many Advent traditions in our home. I’ve been spending a little time these past couple weeks finalizing our plans for this upcoming season of Advent. Before I start sharing ideas with you I want to emphasize that every year has looked a little different, and we are never able to “do it all”… Some years we have done more, and other years we focused keeping it extra simple and preparing for and welcoming our own Christmastime babies! I hope that in sharing all these ideas it might inspire you to incorporate one of two of them into your own domestic church this Advent!
The Feast of St. Andrew
The beginning of Advent is determined by St. Andrew’s Day. The Sunday nearest to his feast is always the First Sunday in Advent. If November 30th falls on a Monday through Wednesday, Advent begins the Sunday preceding his feast day, if it falls on Thursday through Saturday Advent begins the Sunday following.
This feast is a name-day (patron saint’s feast day) for one of our boys! Some past treats have included Cross and Fish Cupcakes, Goldfish with Pretzel Rods and Peanut Butter, and Andreasherzen (St. Andrew’s Hearts) from Cooking With the Saints.
Scroll through all past posts for St. Andrew the Apostle’s Feast Day here.
Christmas Anticipation Prayer
Beginning on St. Andrew the Apostle’s feast day, November 30, the Christmas Anticipation Prayer (also referred to as the St. Andrew Novena) is traditionally recited fifteen times a day until Christmas. This beautiful meditative prayer helps us increase our awareness of the real focus of Christmas and helps us prepare ourselves spiritually for His coming.
You can find printable prayer cards to download online.
Hail and blessed be the hour and moment in which the Son of God was born of the most pure Virgin Mary, at midnight, in Bethlehem, in the piercing cold. In that hour, vouchsafe, O my God! to hear my prayer and grant my desires, through the merits of Our Saviour Jesus Christ, and of His Blessed Mother. Amen.
Imprimatur +MICHAEL AUGUSTINE, Archbishop of New York, New York, February 6, 1897
The Advent Wreath
The Advent wreath is packed with symbolism and is a great way to teach the children about God, Christ and the Christmas season. The round shape stands for God’s eternity. Like God, it has no beginning and no end. The greens used to make the wreath are EVERgreen, and therefore unchanging, just like God. The four candles symbolize the four centuries that man waited for the coming of our Savior. Three of the candles are purple since Advent is a time of penance. It was because of our sinfulness that we needed a Savior, and so we must prepare ourselves through sacrifice and penance during Advent for Christ’s coming at Christmas. However, we know that Christ HAS and IS coming again, and so our penance is a joyful one! We are joyfully anticipating and preparing ourselves for the celebration of Christmas, as well as Christ’s second coming. Therefore, one candle is pink to represent our joy.
At the beginning of Advent my husband blesses the wreath, and leads the prayers each Sunday of Advent as we light each additional candle.
We have two Advent Wreaths in our home. One on the coffee table in the family room which we light during our rosary each evening. Originally we always used a live homemade wreath, but they dried out so quickly (and my husband, being a firefighter didn’t like the potential hazard) so we switched to a wreath from Costco. I bought candle holders at the dollar store and we use pillar candles so they last all of Advent for our family rosaries…
… and one on the dining table which we light during dinner.
One year we hung it like the VonTrapps. I’m hoping to figure out how to hang it again in our new home!
Scroll through all past Advent Wreath posts here.
Advent Music
Singing as a family is a great addition to evening prayers during Advent. We always begin with O Come, O Come, Emmanuel. Our collection of music for Advent and Christmas also includes:
- Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring: Christmas with The Dominican Sisters of Mary
- Advent at Ephesus
- Adventus
- Legends of Nicholas
First Sunday of Advent and our Nativities
On the First Sunday of Advent we set out family Nativity and other nativity sets. We add to our nativity a little each week, beginning Advent with the Stable, Ox, Tree and Pinecones decorations. On the second Sunday the angel, shepherd and lamb are added, on the third Sunday Joseph and Mary arrive, and on the fourth Sunday the wise men start making their way towards the nativity. Baby Jesus is added on Christmas following Midnight Mass!
Candle in the Window – An Old Irish Tradition
Another Advent decoration I wanted to share is our candle in the window. Teresa Zepeda, in her book Celebrating the Faith in the Home, describes the tradition as follows:
“This simple touch has both symbolic and historical significance. It symbolizes that, unlike the inn at Bethlehem, we do have room in our homes and hearts for the coming Christ. And it also calls to mind that throughout history great sacrifices have been required of God’s faithful people. During the persecutions in Ireland following the Reformation, fugitive priests would travel from house to house offering Mass in the night. Every Irish family deeply wished to be honored with a priest’s visit on Christmas eve, and the candles in the window were a secret welcome to any priest who might be near. The doors were left unlocked so the priest could enter silently and wake the family. The lighted candles and unlocked doors were explained to the English authorities as symbols of welcome to Jesus, Mary & Joseph, who allowed it as “harmless superstition.””
With the way things are going this year, it might not be too long before we have to resort to this again…
Preparing our Hearts: Crib & Straw, Christmas Creche
Each Advent, as we prepare for Christmas, the Church individually encourages us to prepare our hearts for a personal and spiritual encounter with Christ. During Advent we are then encouraged to perform good works and increase our prayers and sacrifices.
One method of getting the children involved is to make these acts an offering of love for the Christ Child by adding a piece of straw (or raffia) in a manger for each of their extra prayers, good works, and sacrifices. By preparing their hearts for Christ, they are also preparing the manger scene and a soft place for the Infant Jesus to arrive on Christmas.
At the beginning of Advent we set our manger for Baby Jesus with hay to be added for their good deeds and sacrifices. On Christmas after attending Mass our children place Baby Jesus in the manger they have prepared.
Christkindl
About 8 or 9 years ago we decided to expand on the Christmas Creche tradition by incorporating the Christkindl (Christ Child) tradition which Maria von Trapp shares in her book Around the Year with the Trapp Family. (This book was out print until recently but the complete text was – and still is – available on the EWTN website… Many years ago I printed it out in it’s entirety before finding a used copy on ebay!) Growing up my family enjoyed doing this during Advent, and it was also encouraged at Christendom College when I was a student!
Mrs. Von Trapp explains the tradition much better than I ever could: Read all about it here.
Our children actually just tuck their letters into their shoes on the eve of the feast of St. Nicholas so that he can pick them up and deliver them to the Christ Child!
The Advent Calendar
Every Advent our family counts down the days until Christmas with picture books, Advent Calendars, and the Jesse Tree.
I really love this Advent Calendar but wish I was able to be customized with the correct number of days of Advent each year…
Advent Book Baskets & Spiritual Reading
What IS customizable is our annual Advent Book Basket.
Years ago, when we didn’t have enough Christmas themed picture books to wrap one for each day of Advent, I would check some Christmas books out from the library just before Advent began. We have added many books to our home library since then, giving one Christmas themed book to each of our children on the feast of St. Nicholas, and our collection has definitely grown.
Each year I share labels to attach to the books for anyone who would like to use them as well.
Years ago I wrapped the books in pink and purple paper. Now I just reuse ribbons each year with brown paper or brown bags!
Scroll through past Advent Book Baskets here.
A New Favorite Advent Calendar
This beautiful calendar based on the Traditional Calendar is a new addition to our home this Advent and I love it so much! I’ve printed out the color version to display downstairs and a couple black and white versions for my children to color and display in their bedrooms.
The Jesse Tree
“There shall come forth a shoot form the stump of Jesse, and a branch shall grow out of his roots. And the Spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him, the spirit of wisdom and understanding, the spirit of counsel and might, the spirit of knowledge and the fear of the Lord.” ~ Isaiah 11:1-2
The Jesse Tree provides a meaningful way for us to count down the days until Christmas. Moreover, it increases our understanding of this portion of salvation history and is an effective way to prepare spiritually for Christmas.
I can’t remember exactly when I made our Jesse Tree, it was a long time ago, before I had a blog (or a digital camera) and started documenting every craft we make. 😉 It was either in 2003 or 2004, those first few years of our marriage, with three babies in three years, are somewhat of a blur… Anyway, it is around 17 years old now and has been well-loved by my little ones.
My goal, when making the Jesse Tree was to have something that I would be able to use every year, but wouldn’t cost much or require any sewing. I had considered the kit from Leaflet Missal, but even that was out of the question at the time. Since I already had a collection of colored felt, I ended up picking up some blue and green felt from the fabric store for just a few dollars and made my own!
Detailed pictures of each individual ornament can be found on in the archives if you are up for crafting one for your family!
One year I was gifted with a wooden Jesse Tree set in exchange for sharing a review of it on the blog. If it fits in your budget I highly recommend it as well!
For many years we used the New Catholic Picture Bible for our daily readings, along with free printable coloring pages I would round up online. As the children got older some of them would read the passages directly from the Bible.
Another option is reading through Amy Steedman’s Read-Aloud Book of Bible Stories (originally published between 1907 and 1922 as The nursery book of Bible stories, republished with minor editorial revisions in 2009 by Sophia Institute Press) and adding in some extra picture books as well!
Jesse Tree Ornament Exchanges are fun too, though our felt and wood sets will always be my favorite. We made a Choir of Angels for the swap!
Scroll through all past Jesse Tree posts here.
The Jesse Tree Path
A few years ago I decided to create a path down the center of our table for Advent using the ornaments for each day. The first year was actually just a countdown path out doilies … the next year I incorporated our wooden Jesse Tree Ornaments!
Jesse Tea
A Jesse “Tea” is another thing we have incorporated a few times over the years, inspired by Alice Guther, with various food items representing different things included on the Jesse Tree!
Pictures from past years can be found here and here.
Feast of St. Nicholas
St. Nicholas’ feast day, on December 6th, is one of the highlights of the Advent season.
Stockings, slippers, or shoes can be placed outside bedroom doors or near the fireplace the night of December 5 with the anticipation of finding a coin purse full of chocolate coins from the kind bishop with his mitre, staff, and bag of gifts!
The story St. Nicholas and the Nine Gold Coins, or other books about the Real Santa Claus, can also be read aloud to and enjoyed by children to give special meaning to this season of preparation for our personal spiritual encounter with Christ.
Scroll through all past St. Nicholas posts here.
Every year on December 6th our children wake up to find new slippers (or sometimes as new pair of shoes for winter) filled with little treats, chocolate gold coins, candy canes, and new Christmas books.
Gift Ideas for the Feast of St. Nicholas:
- Gold coins, other money or gift certificate representing the money he threw into the window of a poor family’s house.
- Candy Cane to represent his bishop’s staff.
- A toy representing the toys he had commissioned a toymaker to make for poor children.
- Something to represent his devotion to God: a spiritually oriented book, icon, cross, or other object.
- Something to represent the food he would give to the poor (fruit, nuts, gift certificate, etc).
- An item of clothing representing his clothing the poor.
- Something representing the gingerbread he liked to bake and give away.
- Something representing the ship he saved through his prayers.
In addition to the gifts received on this feast, the Christ-Child and His angels bring other gifts on Christmas Eve; and the Magi a few more (Stacks of Books/Wisdom) on Epiphany.
St. Nicholas Books
Our children (and teens!) have always received a new Christmas book from St. Nicholas, which has helped us build an amazing collection over the last twenty years. It will be so great to pass each of their collections down to them when they eventually start families of their own.
You can find this year’s picks, along with links to many past years, here.
St. Nicholas Coins
St. Nicholas Chocolate Coins make a special treat for the feast of St. Nicholas, symbolizing the gold he gave to provide dowries for the impoverished maidens. Decorate chocolate gold coins with images of this generous saint from the printable document found at Catholic Cuisine, then place the coins in shoes or stockings to be discovered by family and friends on St. Nicholas Day!
Printable Images to attach to coins are available in the archives. My newer updated version is here and my older original version is here.
St. Nicholas Brunch & Cherry Cheese Coffee Cake
Brunch on the feast of St. Nicholas always includes peppermint cocoa (sometimes homemade), scrambled eggs, oranges, and Cherry Cheese Candy Cane Coffeecake shaped like the bishop’s staff!
St. Nicholas Surprise
Last year we all discovered a bag on the front porch!
The note read: Happy Feast of St. Nicholas! We hope that you will be blessed by our ‘secret’ gift, given to honor the spirit of the day. It is our hope that you will have a blessed Advent and Christmas season. Ho Ho Ho and all of that!
St. Nicholas Cookies
We have lots of favorites! You can find the links to recipes here:
- The Baker’s Dozen :: A Saint Nicholas Tale and Baking Cookies for the Feast!
- St. Nicholas Cookies (made with Nutter Butters)
- St. Nicholas Purse Cookies (pick up a bag of Mint Truffle Kisses is you see it!)
- Speculatius (German Spice Cookies)
- Stamped Shortbread Cookies
St. Nicholas College Edition
It put a huge smile on my face when my boys sent me these pictures from college last year! They set up a fire on their laptop, put out their slippers, and then filled them with the care package I had sent to them, complete with sprinkling chocolates on the floor! I’m so very happy to have them home this Advent. We’ll have this whole Advent season with all nine of our children for the first time!
Feast of St. Ambrose
Sometimes on December 7th my little ones help bake a Honey Bun Coffee Cake in our Honeycomb Pull Apart Cake Pan in honor of the St. Ambrose, the honey-tongued doctor.
Legend says that when St. Ambrose was a baby, a swarm of bees flew in the window and clustered around his mouth, indicating that he would grow up to become a famous writer and speaker, one whose words would be as sweet as honey.
Christ Candle
Since he is the patron saint of beekeepers, bees, and candlemakers we also start creating our Christmas “Christ Candle” on his feast or on the following day which is the feast of the Immaculate Conception! Sometimes we will wrap it in a blue ribbon for Our Blessed Mother, covering the baby Jesus until Christmas when the ribbon is removed.
We started with just adding stickers to our candle… Since 2009 we have used gold decorating wax and a tiny baby Jesus made from wax (from Blumchen) to decorate our Christmas Candle.
Immaculate Conception *Holy Day of Obligation*
After Mass on the Feast of the Immaculate Conception I’ll have some sort of craft for the children –sometimes making homemade Christmas cards or ornaments to gift to their godparents and grandparents.
The special treat for the day is gingerbread. It is baked on this day because it reminds us of the passage in the Book of Sirach, 24:20-21 that describes Mary smelling like spices:
I gave a sweet smell like cinnamon and aromatical balm;
I yielded a sweet odor like the best myrrh;
and I perfumed my dwelling as store, and galbanum, and onyx,
and aloes, and as the frankincense not cut, and my odor is as the purest balm.
The Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe
A Mexican tradition begins at the break of dawn with the signing of Las Mananitas a la Virgen de Guadalupe followed by Holy Mass. According to tradition, afterwards everyone returns home for feasting and celebration.
In the past we’ve had dinner or brunch with an Our Lady of Guadalupe theme and all the details for those can be found on the blog.
Scroll through all past Our Lady of Guadalupe posts here.
The Christmas Rose Novena
The Christmas Rose Novena to St. Therese also begins on the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe, 12 days before Christmas. One is to pray the novena 12 times per day for 12 days to honor the 12 years of Christ’s childhood.
Remember, O Gracious Little Rose Queen, your promise to spend your heaven in doing good on earth and even, if necessary, to come down to help those who ask your aid. If it is God’s Holy Will, and my dispositions are pleasing to Him by their honesty and true desire for goodness, keep your promise to shower roses and send me some visible sign of your heavenly friendship for me and for those I love. In memory of the great interior enlightenment you received on a certain Christmas of your early life, ask God for a “:Christmas Rose” for me in these my urgent needs, that I may experience an increase in faith, hope and confidence. (Meditate, here upon your petitions so that St. Therese can understand why your are asking her to assist you.) I desire to know and to accept real objective truth about life and death. Give me assurance that you understand and will remain my heavenly friend, so that one day we may be together with God. Keep your promise to give some answer! Amen.
Santa Lucia Day
Santa Lucia (St. Lucy) was a young Italian girl who was martyred for her faith in 304 AD. During Advent in Sweden, one of the biggest celebrations is Santa Lucia’s Day originating from the stories told by the holy Monks who first brought Christianity to Sweden. Traditionally ‘Lussekatter’, St. Lucia’s Day Buns flavored with saffron and dotted with raisins, are served by a girl dressed in a white dress with a red sash around her waist and a crown of candles on her head.
Scroll through all St. Lucy posts here.
Here once again I want to remind you to start small! These celebrations will grow organically along with your children!
Here is a photo of our very first St. Lucia Day celebration! We crafted a crown made out of cardstock and drove into town to pick up some donuts.
A couple years later a box from a dear and generous blog reader arrived from Norway filled with a couple crowns for my two girls, star boy wands and hats, and other goodies to celebrate this special feast of one of my daughter’s patron saints.
Now that daughter is the one who stays up late baking for the family!
Santa Lucia Braided Bread
A recipe for Santa Lucia Braided Bread, inspired by the candle-covered crown she is said to have worn to light her way as she brought food to the persecuted Christians hiding in the catacombs, can be found at Catholic Cuisine.
Bambinelli Sunday
On the third Sunday of Advent we read Amy Welborn’s charming picture book which introduces readers to a wonderful Italian tradition that takes place on the Third Sunday of Advent—when children from around the world gather in the piazza of St. Peter’s to present their Baby Jesus to the Pope for his special blessing.
Advent Ember Days
Advent 2020 Ember Days are December 16, 18, and 19.
According to the Extraordinary Form of the Roman Missal (1962), the Advent Ember Days are the Wednesday, Friday and Saturday of the third Week of Advent.
Ember Days are three days (Wednesday, Friday and Saturday) set apart in each of the four seasons for fasting, abstinence and prayer. Tied to the seasonal cycles of farming and harvesting, the purpose of Ember Days is to render thanks to God for the gifts of Creation and to ask His help in using them well. Since 1966, the fasting and abstinence are no longer prescribed but still encouraged.
In Catholic England, there was a verse to help people remember when they fell: “Fasting days and Emberings be Lent, Whitsun, Holyrood, and [St] Lucie,” and a shorter mnemonic that went: “Lenty, Penty, Crucy, Lucy.”
On these days, Catholics traditionally fast as they would on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday, except they are permitted to eat meat as part of the main meal on the Wednesday and Saturday.
Ember Wednesday – Traditional day of partial abstinence
Ember Friday – Traditional Day of fast and abstinence
Ember Saturday – Tradtional Day of Fast and partial abstinence
Additional Advent Activities from Past Years
· Create Advent Lap Books
· Christmas Mosaic Books and Activities
· Holy Heroes Advent Adventure
· Assemble puzzles: Noah’s Ark, Our Lady of Guadalupe Puzzle, Holy Family Puzzle, Nativity in the Woods, Glorious Nativity, Twelve Days of Christmas,
· Make Advent Candles
· Service Projects – Make Rosaries, etc.
· This year we are looking forward to the Rorate candlelit Votive Mass at our parish!
The Great O Antiphons – The Golden Nights
The O Antiphon Prayers are chanted or recited at Vespers, prior to the Magnificat, beginning on December 17th and ending on the 23rd, which is the last Vespers of Advent.
Ever since our oldest children were very little, we have been implementing an old monastic custom in our home by providing special treats, representing each of the “O Antiphons” on the days leading up to Christmas.
The Benedictine monks arranged these antiphons with a definite purpose. If one starts with the last title and takes the first letter of each one – Emmanuel, Rex, Oriens, Clavis, Radix, Adonai, Sapientia – the Latin words ero cras are formed, meaning, “Tomorrow, I will come.” Therefore, the Lord Jesus, whose coming we have prepared for in Advent and whom we have addressed in these seven Messianic titles, now speaks to us, “Tomorrow, I will come.” So the “O Antiphons” not only bring intensity to our Advent preparation, but bring it to a joyful conclusion.
Scroll through all O Antiphon posts here.
O Antiphon Treats
Each night, following our family rosary, we pray the O Antiphon for the day, sing O Come, O Come, Emmanuel, which was inspired by this ancient tradition, and then give the children a special treat.
The “treats” have varied from year to year. Some years it has been little gifts or activities for the family, some years it is all food related, and some years it is a mix of both, depending on our schedule and budget. It doesn’t need to cost much or even anything at all! Be creative!
Sometimes the treats are a bit of a stretch, but my goal is try and find gifts that will either help increase our faith (Catechism books, holy family, saints, prayer, etc) or encourage family time (games, puzzles, going to look at Christmas lights, etc). You can find some of our past O Antiphon treats by scrolling through the archives and visiting Catholic Cuisine.
Our family loves this tradition. It is such a fun way to teach the children about these beautiful prayers of the church and also increase their excitement as Christmas gets closer.
In case you are looking for some inspiration, I’ve listed some of the treats I’ve given my family over the years… Special food ideas, activities and gifts (or you can simply decorate chocolate coins!) for each of the O Antiphons can be found in the archives.
O Antiphon House
A little over ten years ago I made this O Antiphon House, which is a variation on the Advent Houses mentioned in Helen McLoughin’s Advent Family Customs book, to go along with the prayers each day, as we count down these final days of Advent!
The transition from the liturgical season of Advent to the new season of Christmas can be accentuated in our home so that every family member recalls that good works and charity doesn’t end on Christmas Day. The purple and pink Advent candles can be changed to white, or a Christ Candle (white pillar or taper candle) can be inserted in the middle of the wreath and used for evening prayers until the Feast of the Baptism of Our Lord which marks the day before Ordinary Time.
Be sure to also visit my annual Christmas Gift Guide and enter this year’s Giveaway!
I hope you all have a truly blessed Advent this year!
2020 Christmas Gift Ideas & Stocking Stuffers {Plus Another Sleighful of Giveaways}
It’s time for this year’s list of “Christmas Gift Ideas” and another “Sleighful of Giveaways!” I actually got a jump start on it this year, and thought I’d actually might finish it early, but between our girls getting their wisdom teeth out on Tuesday, the boys flying home from college on Wednesday, and two of my brothers coming up for Thanksgiving and staying for the weekend, life has been extra full! I’m finally wrapping it up and it’s ready to share. You can find the lists from the last five years here, here, here, here, and here, as well as even more Catholic gift ideas listed in my past Easter posts as well: 100+ Easter Basket Stuffers & Catholic Gift Ideas and Easter Symbols: Catholic Gift Ideas. Some of the items below have been featured in the past but they are still favorites. I’ve tried to only include links to things that are currently available, or were available at the time of this post, but I think a few items might be out of stock…
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- Advent Wreath Socks and Nativity Socks from Socks Religious – 20% OFF with code BFCM2020 (ends 11/30 – discount will appear in checkout, code shouldn’t be needed)
- Traditional Advent Calendar – This is so gorgeous and as of last night is now available to Download and Print for this Advent!
- Premium Advent Calendar
- The Grumpy Old Ox and A Child’s Christmas ABC Book: Angels in the Air Arrayed
- Nativity Icon from Clear Creek Abbey
- Catholic Christmas Cartoons
- Christ Child Bells from Pinecone Leather Co.
- Nativity Candle and Fontanini 2020 Ornament
- The Vatican Christmas Cookbook
- Legends of St. Nicholas
- Adventus
- Advent at Ephesus
- Catholic Christmas Classics
- Catholic Songs for Children – includes: Gather Round the Crib at Christmas and The Best Christmas Present of All
- Christmas at Ephesus
- Jesu, Joy of Man’s Desiring: Christmas with The Dominican Sisters of Mary
- Christmas in Harvard Square
- Caroling at Ephesus
- St. Nicholas Statue
- St. Nicholas Block from Almond Rod Toys and Saint Nicholas Cookie Stamp from Rycraft
- Kids St. Nicholas Socks and Adult St. Nicholas Socks from Sock Religious
- St. Nicholas and the Nine Gold Coins – Review can be found here.
- St. Nicholas Chocolate Coins (Here is my FREE document for this new updated version! You can find my original St. Nicholas Chocolate Coins in the archives.)
- Drinking with St. Nick: Christmas Cocktails for Sinners and Saints from the author of Drinking with the Saints: The Sinner’s Guide to a Holy Happy Hour
- St. Nicholas Prayer for Children Print
- The Man Who Was Really Santa Claus
- St. Nick’s Goat Milk Soap from The Cloister Shoppe
- Our Lady of Guadalupe Roses Art Print
- Our Lady of Guadalupe Candle from Clear Creek Abbey
- Our Lady of Guadalupe Rosary
- Our Lady of Guadalupe Socks from Sock Religious
- December Saints from Almond Rod Toys
- Our Lady of Guadalupe: The Graphic Novel
- Cloak of Roses – Our Lady of Guadalupe from Regina Martryum Productions
- Marian Grotto Our Lady of Guadalupe Kit
- Our Lady of Guadalupe Muslin Swaddle
- Santa Lucia Fairy Ornament
- Lucia Morning in Sweden
- Sleepytime Saints: A to Z – and a matching Santa Lucia Doll from Marzipantz!
- Portraits of Saints Holy Card
- Lighted Porcelain Santa Lucia Statue
- Lucia Crown (5 Candle version… Ours is Seven Candles) for Real Candles
- Dala Pajamas from Hanna Andersson – I don’t love these nearly as much as the St. Lucia version a few years ago, but they are still pretty cute!
- Lucia Saint of Light
- St. Lucy Block from Almond Rod Toys
Here are some puzzles that are currently available to purchase:
- Nativity Snow Globes Puzzle (1000 Piece)
- Over the River Puzzle (1000 Piece)
- Stained Glass Holy Night Jigsaw Puzzle
- Harbor Side Carolers (1000 Piece)
- Christmas Parade (1000 Piece)
- Forest Nativity Shaped Jigsaw Puzzle
- Main Street Carolers (1000 Piece)
- Neighborhood Nativity Jigsaw Puzzle (1000 Piece)
- Peaceful Night (550 Piece)
- Christkindlmarkt (1000 Piece)
.: Favorite Nativity Sets :.
- Kurt Adler Wooden Nativity Advent Calendar with 24 Magnetic Figures
- Joseph Walking and Mary on the Donkey
- Jesus, Mary and Joseph Pillar Candle from Holy Face Shop
- Fontanini Holy Family
- Nativity Tea Light Candle Lantern
- Ostheimer Nativity Set Full Size – This was a gift a couple years ago and we’ve been adding to the collection. Available from Bella Luna.
- Childrens Nativity Blocks Starter Set and Deluxe Wooden Nativity Set from Almond Rod Toy
- Wooden Nativity from Armadillo Dreams
- Wish List: Nativity Schwibbogen with Electric Lights
Please note: In addition to their stockings, our children usually unwrap three gifts from my husband and I on Christmas morning – something they need, something they want, and one other gift which is usually faith based. We draw names on the first Sunday of Advent for Christkindl and end with a family Christkindl gift exchange. It’s always the first thing they want to do after our morning prayers (or morning Mass if we didn’t make it to the Midnight Mass) on Christmas Day! They also receive a stack of books either on Epiphany. The gifts listed below have been received over a number of different years/occasions.
Even though the boys were on the other side of the country, I still asked them to help with the gift guide again… They are both home now! Here is what he sent me when I asked for his list:
- Gift cards for food – Dominos, Dunkin’ Donuts, etc
- Snack Food (gift card or actual food)
- Fun sweaters or t-shirts. Maybe some dress shirts (to go with the ties) *Sasquatch Spotted is a favorite tie, so is his Irish Flag Tie. This year I think I might get him this t-shirt and this tie.*
- Paddle Board and other outdoor stuff (like the hammock) *He also loves his Hey Dude Loafers!*
- Laptop
- In Sinu Jesus: When Heart Speaks to Heart — The Journal of a Priest at Prayer
- Some fun activity thing that’ll be a life skill – Scuba Diving
- AirPods *He loves his Noise Canceling Headphones too*
- Some sanity (loving support and time with family) [the doctor is in Charlie Brown]
- Sports Gear and Merchandise – Pickelball Ball, Soccer Cleats, Soccer Balls, Practice Jerseys, Hats, T-shirts, etc
- Less Than a Minute to Go: The Secret to World-Class Performance in Sport, Business and Everyday Life
- Spikeball – A gift from a couple years ago and so fun!
- Leather Messenger Bag
- Bow Ties and Dress Shoes – These are his favorite loafers.
- Nike Sports Duffle Bag
- Ukulele *He doesn’t have his own, but loves learning to play at college!*
- Bose Bluetooth Speaker
- Cool Socks from Sock Religious
- Ticket to Ride Europe
- Mother Teresa Mug – Do Good Anyway
- Midway (DVD)
- Slipper Socks
- Rose Gold MacBook Air
- Paddle Board (We bought two at Costco last summer at a huge discount! So much fun!)
- American Saints T-Shirt from Little Way Design Co
- The Shadow of the Bear, Black as Night and Waking Rose by Regina Doman
- Folded Trappers Slippers from Minnetonka
- Catholic Hoodies for when she’s out using her Genesis Archery Bow and Arrows (She received her bow in 2016 and it’s still a favorite… New arrows are always on her wishlist!)
- Ranger’s Apprentice Series by John Flanagan (She’s reading through her older brothers set!)
- Ticket to Ride
- Wish List: LEGO Bookshop (It would be a pretty cool addition to their LEGO town play.)
- JessaKae Dresses – So many of you wanted to know where we found her Confirmation Dress. JessaKae is our go to for beautiful dresses for our girls now that they can wear Women’s Small.
- Denim A Line Skirt
- St. Philomena Necklace
- Technically a diaper bag… but she loves her Platinum Mini Classic Bag from Freshly Picked
- Sacred Heart Rosary from Come Holy Spirit
- Who’s Your Hero Catholic T-Shirt
- Escape from Colditz: 75th Anniversary Edition
- St. Joseph Socks and St. Michael Socks from Socks Religious
- Saint Michael Above the 38th Parallel
- LEGO Creator Sets and City Sets (One favorite from the past is his LEGO City Police Station.)
- Tippman Cronus Paintball Gun Set
- St. Michael Rosary from Come Holy Spirit Rosaries
- Dunkirk (DVD)
- Tenzing Rambler Backpack
- Rollerblades Spitfire XT (Still a favorite after two years!)
- Fashion Plates Deluxe Kit with add ons
- Sleeping Queens – She doesn’t have her own, but loves playing it with a friend!
- Little Therese: The Life of St. Therese of Lisieux For Children
- Sterling Silver St. Therese Necklace
- LEGO Winter Village sets – She doesn’t have her own (yet… shhh! I pre-ordered this year’s addition for her!) but loves playing with her sisters!
- Madeline Dress, Cape and Hat from Cat and Mouse Clothing
- Radiant Writers Glitter Gel Pens
- Saint Cards Base Set – Looking forward to adding on more of this great game!
- Rollerblade Spitfire XT Girl’s Adjustable Fitness Inline Skate (repeat from last year still a favorite!)
- Playmobil Gladiators and Leopard Family (recent additions to our Historical Playmobil collection!)
- Sushi Go
- Fagus All Purpose Vehicle This Jeep and all the other Fagus Trucks and Tractors are favorites!
- Nathan Hale’s Hazardous Tales
- Miniature Mass Kit for Children – Each of our boys now has their own brass Mass Kit. Definitely an investment, but I was able to get the last two sets during an amazing clearance sale I ran across awhile back. We also have a Wooden Mass Kit from Almond Roy Toys!
- The Hobbit: Illustrated Edition
- LEGO Pizza Truck (all the Great Vehicles LEGO sets are favorites! My kids especially love any sets that they can turn into jobs/businesses when they are playing together with their LEGO Town.)
- What About Baseball Board Game
- Arctic Fox – Another loved gift from his Godparents along with his Red Fox and River Otter Plush. All of the Wild Republic stuffed animals are great.
- Jellycat Bashful Unicorn (Medium)
- Dress Up Clothing
- New Gift for 2020: Rattan Casa Clutch in Rose to go with the girls Calico Critters
- Lola Dutch
- 24 Brillant Bee Crayons
- Pride and Prejudice – And many of the other BabyLit Storybooks and Board Books!
- Puppy in Donut Pet Carrier
- Dogs Out Bib – Bella Tunno makes great bibs!
- Wish List: Wellie Wishers Emerson Doll – She has named the other four dolls in the line after her four sisters, and this one she says is her!
- Swan Rocker – She hated it at first but loves it now!
- Bella Tunno Suction Plates – Such great plates.
- Eloise the Elephant from Cuddle + Kind
- The Rooster Struts Board Book – Hands down her favorite board book.
- Corolle’s 40th Anniversary Leonie Doll – This sweet doll will be one of her gifts this year!
- Cute Dresses like this one from Hanna Andersson
- Versa L’Alto Rosary from Chews Life – She also loves her Vintage Blooms Rosary and Miraculous Medal Pacifier Clip.
- Freshly Picked Sherpa Lined Moccasins – So warm and cozy. Purchased on sale.
- Wheely Bug – We’ve had the large and small cows for years. I’d love to buy her the small Ladybug!
- Mary Blue and Pearl Earrings
- Shabby Chic Earring Holder
- Glory Rosary Bracelet from Chews Life
- The Whole World Will Love Me – Re-reading this great book right now. A couple other favorites from back when I was a young mother: We and Our Children: How to Make a Catholic Home and Around the Year with the Von Trapp Family from past list.
- Silver Sacred Heart Necklace from Telos Art Shop
- Wish list: Drinking With Your Patron Saints – I rarely drink but still love this series of books! Excited to check out the brand new addition!
- Catholic Aprons from Catholic Cuisine
- Wish list: Holy Family Statue
- Woodland Miraculous Medal Earrings
- 10 Battles Every Catholic Should Know
- Rugged Combat Rosary WWI Military Replica in Gunmetal
- Deliverance Prayers: For Use by Laity
- The Liturgical Year 15 Volume Set or purchase them individually starting with Book I.
- St. Benedict Two Tone Crucifix
- Sock Religious
- Nothing Superfluous: An Explanation of the Symbolism of the Rite of St. Gregory the Great
- Gift Cards to a Favorite Store
- Saint Benedict Plaque
- 2021 Traditional Latin Mass Calendar from FSSP (Extraordinary Form)
- 2021 Saints Calendar and 16 Month Daily Planner from TAN (Ordinary Form + Extraordinary Form -My husband and I both use this every year!)
- 2021 Catholic Calendar from Saints Galore (Ordinary Form + Extraordinary Form)
- 2021 Mary and the Saints Wall Calendar from TAN (Ordinary Form + Extraordinary Form)
- 2021 Theology of the Home Planner from TAN (Liturgical Calendar Highlights)
- 2021 The Angels Wall Calendar from TAN (Ordinary Form + Extraordinary Form)
- 2021 The Life of Our Lord Wall Calendar from TAN (Ordinary Form + Extraordinary Form)
Prize #01 – The Annunciation – Merode Altarpiece (Large Size: 23.25″ x 23.43″) and The Presentation (Small Size: 5″x7″). The plaque mounted image makes for a unique gift, treasured for years to come due to its quality UV protection matte finish and washable surface. The wood plaque measures 3/8″ thick with beveled and finished edges. Sponsored by Cedar & Stars.
“Thank you again, Jessica. I cannot tell you how many purchases I’ve made as a direct result of your posts like this – most recently a large order to Rycraft. Thank you for your thoughtful posts and heart️.”
“Wow! So many wonderful prizes and ideas. I think I would like the Rosary Blocks from Almond Rod Toys. If not those, then the Saint Cards Game Set. Thanks for the chance to win!”
Congratulations Katie Hancheck!
“And your giveaways are amazing!! #4 #13  are my favs 😀
Thank You for doing this! Many Graces to you for your time and sacrifice!”
Prize #08 – St. Therese Decal, St. Joseph Decal, Our Lady of Guadalupe, St. Joan of Arc Decal, St. Philomena Decal, Sacred Heart Set (Image & Prayer), Immaculate Heart Set (Image & Prayer), St. Michael Set (Image & Prayer), Guardian Angel Set (Image & Prayer) sponsored by Devout Decals! (value $114.55)
“Great prizes! My favorites are 9, 11, 18 and 19.”
Congratulations Lori ZL!
“I’d love #10 or #20. Lots of great gift ideas.”
“Thank you for sharing your list. So many great ideas!!”
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Congratulations Dee!
“They are all great prizes! My favorites are #4, #10, #12, #13, #19, and #20.”
Congratulations Lisa C!
“Love all the suggestions! Especially for the older boys, as mine are about the same ages. As for the giveaway, my favorite prizes are #4, #13, #9 and #20. Thanks as always for the beautiful ideas. I have followed you for quite a few years now!”
“Hi! Thank you so very much for hosting this very generous giveaway!! My favorites are #4, #14, #8, #5, and #13, May God and Our Blessed Mother bless you and your family during this holy Advent and always. Thanks again!!”
“All of it is amazing!! Thank you for your gift list!”
Congratulations Kelly!
“Love looking at your Christmas lists!”
Congratulations Molly!
“I love seeing your list each year! Thanks for putting this together!”
“So many awesome giveaways! I hope y’all have a blessed Advent!”
Our 2020 Advent Book Basket and Printable Labels {Plus Giveaway!}
Advent begins this upcoming Sunday!
About five or six years ago I switched to brown paper along with purple and pink ribbon, instead of the original purple and pink wrapping paper I would use years ago… Sometimes I use brown paper bags and sometimes I pick up a roll of brown craft paper from the craft store to use along with the ribbons I reuse every year and our homemade labels!
A Child’s Christmas ABC Book
One of the books we choose as a gift for our children this year is the brand new release from TAN. I asked my husband to write a short review (not sponsored) to share with you all, along with some additional pictures I took, while I keep working on pulling together this year’s Christmas Gift Guide and our annual Advent Giveaways. Thank you, Sean!
New Christmas Books for the Feast of St. Nicholas {and a St. Nicholas Giveaway!}
The feast of St. Nicholas is just three weeks from today! On December 6th our children always wake up to find that the letters they wrote to the Holy Child and/or St. Nicholas have been taken and their (sometimes new/replaced) slippers have been filled with little treats, oranges, chocolate gold coins, candy canes, and often times a note from St. Nicholas.
Our children (and teens!) have also always received a new Christmas book as well, which has helped us build an amazing collection over the last twenty years. It will be so great to pass each of their collections down to them when they eventually start families of their own.
This year my husband and I picked out a chapter book as well for each of our teens/young adults as well. I can’t even tell you how excited I am that we get to have ALL NINE of our children home for ALL of Advent this year for the first time! I’m trying my best to focus on the little blessings in the midst of all the extra struggles of this crazy year…
“On the 1st day o Yuletide,
My true luve gied tae me,
A reid robin in a rowan tree.”
Take a deep breath and prepare for a journey through all twelve days of Yuletide with a cast of skaters skooshin, lassies birlin, sheep a-shooglin and the all-important five gowden rings.
The stunningly beautiful illustrations bring this Scots version of the ever-popular Christmas song to life in vivid detail. Inspired by the traditional verse, this adaptation features easy-to-understand (and pronounce) Scots words and creatures, including hoolets (owls) and bonnie doos (beautiful doves).
I think this is my favorite of all the new books I purchased this year.
“No gift is too small for Jesus when it is given with humility and love.
Joel is seven years old and is the son of the Kings’ stableman. With his Dad, he is traveling with the Magi as they follow the star to Bethlehem, to meet the newborn King. All of them are bringing very special gifts, such as gold, frankincense, and myrrh. But Joel is the only one in the caravan who isn’t carrying a gift for the new King. Since he knows how to whittle wood, Joel decides to carve a little camel for the baby. Soon he discovers that his humble gift is more special than all the others.”
Once again this year I will be hosting FOUR Advent and Christmas themed giveaways! Here is the first giveaway in preparation for the feast of St. Nicholas:
Prize #1 – Set of Five Cookie Stamps with Recipe Booklet
For Teens:
For Children:
The Forgotten Christmas Saint: Saint Anastasia
Animals of God Volume 2 (includes a story of St. Thecla)
Saint Philomena Powerful Love Coloring Book
“What a fun give away! I would love the collection of martyr stories for my kiddos. Great book recommendations, too! Thank you!”
sponsored by Saints Around the World (value $58.00)
“Have a Merry and Blessed Christmas!”
And here is the link to my original St. Nicholas Chocolate Coins and the updated version I created last year!
For additional Christmas book suggestions you can find some of our lists in the archives:
Saint Nicholas & the Nine Gold Coins {Beautiful book!}
Christmas Mosaic: A Review & Featured Book List
35 Favorite Christmas Picture Books for Children
Feasts & Seasons :: Advent & Christmas Collection
Our 2015 Advent Book Basket and Printable Labels
Our 2016 Advent Book Basket and Printable Labels
Our 2017 Advent Book Basket and Printable Labels
Our 2018 Advent Book Basket and Printable Labels
{I’m planning to share our 2020 Basket and Labels soon!}
New Christmas Books for the Feast of St. Nicholas:
2009, 2010, 2011, 2012, 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016, 2017, 2018, 2019
Stacks of Books on Christmas Morning or Epiphany:
2013, 2014, 2015, 2016, 2017
Soldier of Christ: The Sacrament of Confirmation
This weekend, on November 14, 2020, our 15 year old daughter (along with over 50 other teens from our parish) was Confirmed in the Extraordinary Form by her uncle who had been delegated and given facilities by the bishop! That makes four sacraments now (Baptism, First Confession, First Holy Communion, and Confirmation) that she has received from her uncles!
We weren’t allowed to take pictures during the Confirmations. There was a photographer though so we are looking forward to seeing those pictures! Holy Mass followed the Confirmations.
Celebrating the Saints :: Our 2020 Costumes
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| St. Helena, St. Teresa of Avila, St. Maximilian Kolbe, St. Anges + Lamb, St. Rose of Lima, St, Michael the Archangel |
St. Teresa of Avila’s heart was physically pierced by an arrow of God’s love! After exhuming her body, they discovered a puncture wound in her heart. Read the description from her autobiography:
Sleepytime Saints A to Z
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